Day: May 26, 2016

Hello!!  I’m Vixen and along with my husband, Ragnar, we’ll be your tour guides through the wonderful world of sex, swinging, kinks, porn, toys, and any other dirty little thing that tickles our fancy for the moment. We’re a married couple with Ragnar in his early thirties and I’m enjoying the end of my twenties. No, those aren’t our real names (it’d be pretty sweet if they were) and no, you don’t get to know the real ones.  We’re a Midwestern couple and in our area, you can’t even say the word sex without causing someone to cross themselves and get the holy water.

I know what you’re probably thinking… “What makes your sex lives and opinions so unique that you need a blog?”  So glad you asked!  Well readers, we’re going to fill you in on a dirty little secret.  We are swingers.

Shocking, right?  Along with being swingers…

Hello again! It’s me, Vixen, and as promised, we’re going to go through the expected etiquette for attending a swinger’s party or event for single males. I’d originally planned on including some tips we’ve learned from the single males who have impressed us as well as the successful couples as well as touching on online etiquette, but to keep this from being a novel, I’ll cover that tomorrow. I’ll make sure Ragnar covers what he requires in a single male that is allowed to bone his wife on Saturday, so be sure to check back for that! Couples, if you’re looking to jump straight to the don’t do’s for couples, I’m going to split this into two posts, so give me a bit to type out the couples version.  Everybody ready?  Let’s get it on!

SINGLE MALES:

Right.  So let me preface this by saying I have absolutely nothing…

Hey y’all!  Here we go with part two on today’s discussion on proper etiquette for behavior at lifestyle parties, clubs, events, and resorts. For those of you that have already jumped into the wild world of swinging, these are likely going to seem pretty common sense. For any newbies, some of these may seem common sense, but it’s always good to have an idea of what the boundaries are before going in. Let’s get down to it!

First things first, like I said in the single guys etiquette, keep your hands to yourself until you know that the physical contact is welcome. Everyone thinks I say that to just the husbands, but from what we’ve heard from some of our other kinky couple friends, ladies can be just as handsy.  Now ladies, if it’s Ragnar, he’s not going to mind. Go for it. Grope away.  He’ll gladly return the favor.