June 18, 2015 – Page 14 – Momentary Lapse Of Sanity

Respect is build upon
Hard work and struggles
To prove oneself worthy
To be treated with honor
And most of all it’s earned
Through your character
Not through force or fear
Or by use of power to crush
Others for that is not respect
That people have for you in
Their silenced voices and
Tied hands but avoidance of
Pain and humiliation you throw
In their way to make them
Fall so as to feel better about
The person who you are but
Don’t forget today may not
Be their day but the people
Will rise and karma will do
The due you carry around so
Be weary and learn to treat
All equally with compassion
Life has a way of balancing
The wrong deeds you do
So learn before you falter

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June 18, 2015 facetioussoup aka MLWA

How to deal with negative people

SPEAKZEASY

There are friends, colleagues and well-wishers who always desire the best for you. But there are a few others, who would seize upon an opportunity to put you down, no matter what. Be it their negative talks about their lives or generally their pessimistic outlook, whining endlessly, feeling insecure, or always giving negative feedback about your achievement / dreams —————- being around negative people certainly isn’t the best feeling. This might influence you and probably affect your personal life as well. Here’s how you should deal with them :

(1) KEEP THEM INVISIBLE —- People with negative energy can be your colleague or even your friend. So, it might be impossible to avoid them completely. During these times, “picture them as invisible”. If you have people at work who bog you down with negative talks, try to keep the conversation short. You can even put your earphones on and avoid…

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June 18, 2015 facetioussoup aka MLWA

Open letter to Ginger Minj

Inside the Mind of a Dramatic Mother

All my life I have struggled with body image issues, self esteem problems and more. There is a huge backstory, but I have a feeling this is already going to be a TL;DR situation, so I won’t go into that right now. (if you would like to know, I will send you the link to that post)

Since seeing you on Drag Race, something inside me has shifted. I turned 30 on the 14th, so that may be part of it, but I prefer to give you the credit. Suddenly I have confidence. I am finding that I am starting to like myself more, and care less about my body shape. I think your song had a lot to do with that as well as the way you conducted yourself on the show. You are a bigger girl, and (see what I did there? “And” not “but”) you are BEAUTIFUL

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